1:12-30 How not to be Anxious in Stressful Situations

  • In order to help the Philippians (and us) cope with stress, Paul takes us inside his own inner world and shows how he is dealing with two stressful situations.

 

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Stressful situation

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  • Today’s passage is about How not to be Anxious in Stressful Situations
  • First I am going to give a recap of last week’s message

Recap from last time

  • The most remarkable thing about Philippians is how Paul opens up his heart and his emotions

Expressions of love:
Phil 4

  1. So then, my brothers and sisters, dear friends whom I long to see, my joy and crown, stand in the Lord in this way, my dear friends!
  2. I have great joy in the Lord because now at length you have again expressed your concern for me. (Now I know you were concerned before but had no opportunity to do anything.)
  • Paul tells us that his affection towards them is actually Jesus’
    1. For God is my witness that I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.
  • Read these as the words of Jesus:

Philippians 1

  1. I thank my God every time I remember you.
  2. I always pray with joy in my every prayer for all of you
  3. For it is right for me to think this about all of you, because I have you in my heart...
  4. For God is my witness that I long for all of you with the affection of Christ Jesus.

Story 1: Contentious rivals

  • Near the end of the letter (4:6) he says “Do not be anxious about anything”
  • Now he opens up his heart as to how he deals with anxiety with two stories about himself
    • and then one applied to them
  • Today we are going to look at the rest of Ch.1 —vs 12–30
    • Three stories: 2 about Paul, and are happening right now
    • The last one is in the future, and is about the Philippians
  • All three of them are about stressful situations
  • Paul tells the first two, to show how he handles stress
    • And then the third is to teach the Philippians how they can do the same.
  • They all follow the same pattern, and I am going to color-code it so you can see this pattern.

Stressful Situations

  1. Describes a situation
  2. The future is uncertain and risky
    Good things might happen
    or bad things might happen
  3. Understand God’s Goal so that
    whether (AY-teh) good happens,
    or whether (AY-teh) bad happens
    if my goal is God’s goal, it will all work out superbly
    so I don’t have to stress at all!
  • whether (AY-teh) / whether (AY-teh) is a way of speaking in Greek, which sets out two possibilities
    • Not that common, Paul is the only one to use it in the N.T.
    • But he uses it 3 times in Philippians, all in this passage today
    • and once in each situation
  • Which is why I am so sure that today’s three stories are to be taken together.
  • Personal story:
    • Took me an hour to get to the brunch yesterday$..

Read Phil 1:12–18 from below

  • Tell the story of Paul’s arrest in Acts (if that’s what it is referring to)

Acts 24:23–27

  1. Then he gave orders to the centurion that he should be kept in custody but have some liberty, none of his friends should be prevented from attending to his needs.
  2. Felix came with his Jewish wife Drusilla, sent for Paul and heard him speak about faith in Christ Jesus.
  3. And as he reasoned about righteousness and self-control and the coming judgment, Felix was alarmed and said, “Go away for the present. When I get an opportunity I will summon you.”
  4. At the same time he hoped that money would be given him by Paul. So he sent for him often and conversed with him.
  5. Two years elapsed…
  • You can see how this might have made the Christians bolder.
    • But what about the envy & contention?

Philippians 1:12–30

A. Contentious rivals

  1. I want you to know, brothers and sisters,
    that things concerning me have actually turned out for the advancement of the gospel.
  2. The fact my chains are in Christ has become clearly known to all the imperial guard and everyone else
  3. and most of the brothers and sisters,
    trusting in the Lord because of my chains,
    more than ever are daring to speak the word without fear
  4. some, on the one hand from envy and contention
    • some, on the other hand, from goodwill, are proclaiming Christ
  5.       the latter out of love, knowing that
          for the defence of the gospel I am placed here
  6. the former out of selfish ambition, are proclaiming Christ,
    not sincerely, thinking they can add distress to my chains
  7. What’s the result?
          Only that in every way,
          whether in pretence, or whether in truth,
          Christ is being proclaimed
    and in this I rejoice!

B. Threat to survival

  • Yes, and I will continue to rejoice
  1. for I know that this will turn out for my deliverance
          through your prayer and the the help of the Spirit of Christ,
  2.       according to my confident hope that in no way will I be ashamed
          but in complete boldness, even now as always
          Christ will be magnified in my body
          whether through life or whether through death
  3. because for me, to live is Christ and to die is gain
  4. and if I’m to live in the flesh, this for me is fruitful labor
    but what I would choose I do not know,
  5. and I’m torn between the two
    having the desire
          —to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far
  6.       —but to remain in the flesh is more necessary for your sake.
  7. and being convinced of this, I know that I will remain
          and will continue with all of you
          for your progress and joy in the faith
  8. so that your boasting in Christ Jesus might abound
          through me because of my coming again to you.

C. Challenge from anti-Christian opponents

  1. Only conduct yourselves in a manner [live as a citizen] worthy of the gospel of Christ
    that whether I come and see you or whether I am absent,
    I might hear of you
          that you are standing firm in one spirit,
                with one mind contending together,
                for the faith of the gospel
    .
  2. and not being terrified [like horses] in any way by your opponents
          which is to them a sign of destruction,
          but to you of salvation, and this from God
  3. that to you it has been granted, concerning Christ
          not only to believe in him but also to suffer for him
  4.       having the same struggle, that you saw in me
          and now hear of in me.

  • Paul gets clarity about his ultimate goals: the message and kingdom of Jesus
    • Then he can say v.18
  1. Get some clarity about your ultimate goals
  2. Then you can deal with anxiety by saying “whether... whether...”
    • Nothing that God wants to do can be stopped!

Story 2: Threat to survival

  • God has used and blessed me, and I have been bold and not ashamed of Jesus
  • But, there is a problem—I might get sentenced to death
  • whether I live
    • whether I die
      • The name of Jesus will lifted up through me
  • Here the question is the outcome of the trial
  • He is optimistic, but there is still a possibility he might get condemned to death
  • This time he unpacks his “weather.. weather...” for us
  • Why is he not anxious? —because both ways are good

Story 3: Challenge from anti-Christian opponents

  • This story is a joint challenge—will they face it together, or will the Philippians be alone?
  • When Paul had been there, he had been such a great leader
    • In the prison, singing
    • They needed him now—would he come?
  • Here is the truth: v.29 Suffering for Jesus is an honour
    • strange to our ears
  • Stories:
    • Losing our internet this week
    • Huge wave of persecution in China right now
    • Uncertainly about my immigration

Process for Stressful Situations

  1. Think through your ultimate goals
  2. What is God’s goal? Can you align with them?
  3. Say whetherwhether
    God’s goals will be achieved!
  • Look at the options, and if your goal, are God’s, they are all good!
    • Then you don’t have to worry
    • The real trick is to my goals get aligned with God’s goals!